Friday, May 27, 2016

My Thoughts about Baylor University


Those of you who've been reading my site for the past few years probably wouldn't categorize me as a "sports" person. I enjoy sports and especially football, but have never written about or talked about sports on this blog until today.

I felt compelled.  I felt convicted. It is freaking 2016 and the fact we're still having these problems is disgusting.

For those who may not know, on Thursday May 26th the head football coach of the Baylor Bears, Art Briles, was fired from the University. Reports were that the President of the University, Kenneth Starr, was let go a few days ago, and the University only confirmed that today.

The backstory: Baylor has come under fire (and rightly so) for the way they've handled sexual assault and violent incidences committed by football players. A report, entitled the Pepper Hamilton report, allegedly details and addresses these claims. A full statement from Baylor can be read HERE.  (You can also read the full findings of the report, titled Findings of Fact, HERE.  I could write so much more based on specifics of the report but I'd like to keep this under 10 pages.)

Before we go on, I feel like I have to say: I really enjoy sports. I do. I am not an anti-sports or anti-athlete person. I am not someone who is going to bemoan the fact that sports are a prevalent aspect of our collegiate institutions. Sports are fun to watch, and bring people from the school and community together. They help to build pride in our alma maters, our communities, our states. Many programs and athletes give back to the communities both financially and in volunteering. There are  many football programs across our country who are doing great things, and have good people both in the coaching staff and on the field. For every bad apple on the ground, there are hundreds of good apples in the trees.

BUT - - the fact that in 2016, we are still dealing with the "don't look too carefully" method of dealing with assaults against students (primarily women) because schools would rather win championships than protect people is disgusting and frankly, hard to believe.

Those few bad apples are rotting the entire tree, and they need to be thrown out.

* The argument of "the coach / coaching staff didn't / couldn't have know(n)" has to STOP.

The tweet below from yesterday from @BenKercheval PERFECTLY sums up my feelings.


When you are hired as a leader of a team, you are the face of the team. The buck starts and stops with you. If you're being tasked to win games and win championships but also claim to not be involved or aware of personal incidents regarding your players, you're either lying or you're an idiot. You cannot have it both ways. You can't claim to know and watch every single breath they take on the field, but then claim you have no idea or knowledge of their actions once they leave the field. 

If you're a coach who only cares about the outcome of the game but not the people in that game - you are personally failing on such a high level, I don't know where to begin.

Many university football coaches are one of the highest, if not THE highest paid people at their school. (For instance, our coach Kirk Ferentz of the Iowa Hawkeyes - my personal favorite college sports team -  is the highest paid state of Iowa employee.) Because they are so highly compensated, more is (and should be) expected of them.

Of course, any decent person should NEVER protect this kind of behavior, no matter how much they are compensated.

* This statement from the Pepper Hamilton report says it all: "There are significant concerns about the tone and culture within Baylor's football program as it relates to accountability for all forms of student athlete misconduct."

We see this over and over and over again. Coaches and leaders and university officials turn a blind eye to the conduct of their players because they've made the (seemingly) conscience decision that protecting a football team is more important than protected an assault victim. It's more important to win games and win trophies than to ensure that people are safe and that offenders are dealt with, both by the University and also the legal authorities.

Certainly the culture of football in the state of Texas (where Baylor is located) comes into this issue, but as we've seen over and over again, this problem is not relegated to the schools in the South. 

* Athletes (specifically male athletes) need to be speaking out about sexual violence and assault.

In general, when these failings come to light, we often see the players rush to the defense of their coach and/or coaching staff. 

What we *rarely* see are those same people coming to the defense of the victims.

Collegiate athletes (male athletes in particular): I want to hear strong and loud statements from your programs that you WILL NOT under any circumstances tolerate this sort of depravity on your teams. I want you to throw your support behind the victims and help lead a culture where people who rape and beat and assault are not welcome on your teams.

* Dale Hansen, once again you hit the nail on the head.

Dale Hansen is a reporter in Dallas who speaks to this issue, unfortunately, frequently. His commentary is spot-on and addresses the institutional failings that often contribute to these problems.



His quote, as sad as it is, says it all: "No one should be surprised by this, that it's easier to fire a president at a university in Texas than it is to fire a winning football coach." I would offer that that statement is also true around the country, and not just in Texas.

* Football (and all sports) programs all over the United States need to get rid of the cancer if it's festering in their own programs. The time is NOW.

Heads up, University Football Programs - this could be YOU. This could be you on the front page, and top of the hour on every news station. And you need to clean house and start opening your eyes to what is going on around you, and stop doing "business as usual."

Please don't mistake what I'm saying. I'm not suggesting that teams should take a harder look at their players and coaches only because they don't want to be on the receiving end of some truly bad PR. They should do it because it will send a signal to their students as well as other programs across the United States - here at XYZ University, we will not tolerate this garbage. We have zero tolerance. We will not place our athletes on pedestals to the detriment of others. If you assault someone, you will no longer be on this team. Imagine how wonderful it would be, as a student (or potential student) to hear, We care about you more than we can about the Ws at the end of the season.  That would bring in more people to most schools than any glossy brochure or catchy commercial.

As Mr. Hansen from WFAA in Dallas says in his statement, "I like Art Briles, I always have. But he has failed the women at Baylor. He has failed the University, and you can't win enough games to make up for that."

When will we say, enough is enough. When will we choose to stand on our convictions and morals and say, I'd rather lose every single game than stand by as women get assaulted. I hope that day is soon, but I fear it is not.

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

TV Shows I Just Couldn't Get Into

I'm a pop culture junkie. I love all things trendy in TV and movies and gosh darn it, if something is really trending and everyone is talking about it on Twitter, I want in on the action.

But sometimes, try as I might, I just cannot get into some of these shows that you all are raving about. So in no particular order, here's my list for both current and past shows. Please let me know what's on YOUR "I just don't love it" list, and also if I should give any of these another try before I throw in the towel for good.

 - Breaking Bad

What turned me off from this show was how dark it was. And yes, I did know before I watched the first season that it was about meth, so I assumed it wasn't going to be Aaron Paul and Bryan Cranston skipping through a field of daises, holding hands. I'm not a prude when it comes to violence but for me, I just couldn't "live" in that head space with those characters, for so many seasons. I saw the first season and then was like, yep I'm good. I can stop here.

That all to say - I think Aaron Paul and Bryan Cranston are WONDERFUL actors but I knew this wasn't a show where I could go the distance.

(Although, I did watch / fast forward through most of the series finale, just so I knew how it all turned out, so maybe I kinda sorta liked it.)

 - Game of Thrones

 One of the first things I turned to when I signed up for HBO Now was Game of Thrones. I'd heard so much hysteria about it, I just had to check it out for myself.

I watched most of Season 1, and my general reaction was - meh.

I mean, I didn't hate it or anything; I thought it was fine, but just couldn't get why people were obsessed.

GOT fans -- when did you love it? Right away? Second season?

 - The Walking Dead

Full disclosure: I hate gore on screen. Suspenseful? I can do that all day long. Mysteries? Bring it on. But a show all about zombies? And gore, blood, guts? No ma'am; I'm OUT.

I also wonder (and perhaps WD devotees can clue me in here) how the heck they make a multiple season show out of the premise of a zombie apocalypse. I mean, can you REALLY carve out a good narrative that basically involves them killing zombies every episode?

 - Veep

It's got such crazy-good reviews that I checked it out a few weeks ago. I only got about four episodes in and thought, OK maybe they just got off to a shaky start.  That happens. I tried, I soldiered ahead to Episodes 5 and 6....but decided that those were hours of my life I can't get back and so I had to put Veep on the discard pile.

That all being said, I think Julia Louis-Dreyfuss is wonderful, as is the whole cast individually. I just didn't think it was at all funny or amusing; the story lines seemed forced and the laughs were predictable and frankly, not that funny.

 - Friday Night Lights

Look, I know I might lose some of you because of this entry. I am well aware that people LOVED this show like I loved Gilmore Girls. I get it.

But confession - - I have watched the first 5 episodes MULTIPLE TIMES over the last 2-3 years, hoping that this is the time it'll catch me and I'll "get" FNL, but that has yet to happen.

Those of you who love it - - please tell me when it gets better. Is it a slow starter? Did you feel the same and then hit, say, Episode 10 and went Oh OK, NOW it's good?!

I asked the fine folks in my Facebook group what shows were on their lists, and here are some of their comments:




So please share on Facebook, Twitter and right here in the comments - what shows are on your "meh" list?



Monday, May 16, 2016

The results of my AncestryDNA test

Hey everyone! Happy Monday.

So today is the day you've all been waiting for. Well, maybe not ALL of you. OK, the day tens of you have been waiting for. (That seems more probable.)

If you'll remember, about a month ago I purchased a DNA testing kit from Ancestry.com. For $99, you purchase the kit, spit into a tube (GROSS but necessary) and then mail it back to them in the packaging they provide. It takes about 4-6 weeks for your results to be tested and then you get an email when your results are available.

On Friday night, I checked my email and saw this gloriousness:


Praise the Lord! I couldn't wait to log in and see my results. I love this stuff; I'm super into history and genealogy and never missed an episode of that show "Who Do You Think You Are." I felt like I had a pretty good grasp of my heritage and so wondered if I would be at all surprised by my results.

Brief background of my family: My maternal grandfather always said he was Welsh / English, and my maternal grandmother was German, 100%. (Germans marrying Germans for YEARS.) On my father's side, Irish all day long. (When you have a grandma whose maiden name was O'Meara, and she married an O'Hara, you're pretty darn sure of your lineage.)

I figured there might be some other European stuff scattered about but my guess was a pretty even split between English, German and Irish.

Then I got the email and had to pick up my jaw off the keyboard.

Y'all.

I am SHOCKED.

So I'll first give you the visual of my background / DNA history, the breakdown of percentages of each part, and then my commentary and thoughts. Here goes....


So let's break this on down, shall we?

* Great Britain - 37%

In your breakdown, they give you a possible range for the percentage of your DNA and then give you an average. (There is a WHOLE LOT of technical information on there about how they calculate the data and if science is your jam, you'd be ALL IN, my friend.)

Did I think I would be over 1/3rd from the UK? And a possible range on that number as high as 60%?! No ma'am, I did NOT. Not even a little bit.

Like I said, my maternal grandpa always said he was Welsh and English but that is a LOT, folks.

So basically, I am going to contact the Royal Family and tell them I must be some sort of distant relative and am probably 2,547th person in line for the throne. And it also explains my deep and abiding love for all things UK including Prince George, BBC television shows and Tom Hiddleston.

[By the way - did you know that Tom's birthday is just ONE DAY before mine, and only one year earlier? If that is not a sign from the heavens I do not know what is.]

* Ireland - 24%

This was probably the least surprising part, as I figured that would probably be a fairly high percentage due to my paternal side.

* Europe East and Europe West - combined 15%

Um say WHAT?!

As I said above, from what I knew about my maternal grandmother's side was ALL German. Germans marrying other Germans for YEARS. But apparently not, right?!

I talked to my brother this weekend (he is also really into this sort of thing) and he was talking about how our "German" background from my grandma's side is probably as much Polish and Prussian as German. I do know we have Prussian heritage; Prussia is a country that no longer exists but I did know that, and in fact I have a vase that's been passed down in our family for years, that came from Prussia.

What bowled me over about this whole set of data is I thought my German number would be at least 20-25%, if not higher.

* Finland/NW Russia and Scandinavian - combined 14% 

Only ONE losey percentage point different from the German / Prussian heritage I thought I knew all about. WILD.

* Native American - 4%

Hey! I am not as white as I thought! ;) I do remember hearing about having Native American heritage on my paternal side, but what shocks me the most is this percentage is VERY close to my Europe West percentage. For someone who thought she was really German, I am as much German as Native American.

Who knew?!

The other super-cool feature of the DNA testing on Ancestry is the ability to be matched with other AncestryDNA users who are your cousins and relatives. When I took the test, I agreed to have my matches shown and for my DNA to be used in the larger database. What you then get are PAGES and PAGES of other people who have also taken the test who are your probably 1st, 2nd, 4th, etc cousins.  I have a list of 135 pages of possible relatives. Unreal. You can then reach out to them if you'd like and get more information about their side of your family tree.

Folks, if you can swing $99 this is SO MUCH FUN and I encourage you to do it. It was so interesting and really opened up a whole new world of information for me. Now I'm even MORE motivated to learn about my family's history and to try and piece together all parts of my heritage.

If you take the test - please let me know if you are willing to share your results!

Do you feel like you've got a good handle on YOUR family heritage?

Thanks again for reading - have a great evening!

Thursday, May 12, 2016

Spring Break at WDW Part 4 - from Guest Blogger Mindy Walbesser

Today is the final installment of Mindy's guest posts about her family's Spring Break vacation to Walt Disney World. Thank you again to Mindy for sharing, it was great to hear all about your trip!

This past Spring Break was the most crowded we have experienced to date.  We have to do some discussion to decide whether we will be coming back for future Spring Breaks, and if so, what will our expectations going to be.  We have to think about whether it is worth $100 more per annual pass to be able to come during spring break and Christmas time.  If you have a package vacation with regular tickets, or individually purchased multi-day tickets, there is currently no price difference for peak holiday periods, so ticket price will not yet be a factor for those guests.  We have learned that going forward, we have to adjust expectations.  I think that one thing we need to expect is that if we cannot arrive early to ride attractions or see shows during the least crowded morning hours, we cannot count on being able to ride popular attractions over and above any Fastpasses that we’ve booked far in advance.  That doesn’t mean that we will not be able to ride or see anything else, as there are attractions mostly in theater settings that will be available as walk-up, or we have to plan to spend lots of time in line.  It is harder to plan dining reservations if you have to wait in long lines.  You can’t wait in a 90 minute line for Test Track if you have a dining reservation in Downtown Disney/Disney Springs in 2 hours.  You won’t make it.  Weather is also something to think about.  It will certainly be warmer than in most of the country, but the weather can be all over the place, chilly in the morning and evening, beautiful and sunny one minute and rain the next.  One thing, especially when break falls in March, and again during the Christmas holidays, is you cannot count on pool days.  Disney heats the pools, but it’s getting in and out of the pools that can be uncomfortable if the air is too chilly.

I personally would be fine with planning in more resort time in my day.  There are still early evening campfires, and movies under the stars.  There are children’s and family activities at the pool in the afternoon and there are crafts and games in various locations for a minor charge in the afternoons.  Check your resort’s weekly schedule for what is available.  You can play miniature golf at one of Disney’s 4 miniature golf courses, you can bowl at Splitsville, rent bikes or surreys.  Some resorts still have water craft rentals available.  There is also much to be said for resort hopping to enjoy the ambiance and offerings at different resorts than the one you’re staying at.  Ft. Wilderness offers lots of different activities that you don’t need to be staying at Ft. Wilderness to do such as archery or horseback riding.  You can take a carriage ride at Port Orleans.  At the holidays, resort hopping is great because many of the deluxe resorts have fantastic holiday displays such as the life-sized gingerbread house at the Grand Floridian.  And speaking of the Grand Floridian, Senses spa at the Grand or at Saratoga Springs is an excellent way to spend an afternoon.  My friends and I took some time to do that in January and really enjoyed it.  During a busy period I’d also make sure to make a dining reservation if there is a particular restaurant that is a must-do, otherwise, there is always something available if you’re willing to be flexible.  Another point in favor of braving the crowds during spring break at Disney is simply enjoying sunny warm days at the EPCOT Flower & Garden Festival.  Enjoying the Flower Power Concert Series.  We were able to arrive early enough on our last day to get a seat inside the American Gardens Theater to enjoy The Village People.  No ticket or special package required.


Although Disney did not offer as extended hours as they have during past spring breaks, they did go ahead and update hours at the last minute for Magic Kingdom to be opening regular hours at 8am. Closing time stayed at midnight, in contrast to previous years which featured 1am closing.  EPCOT closed at 9pm every night in contrast to past years when they extended closing to at least 9:30pm.  There also were not as many early or late magic hour offerings as in the past. My family will be talking about whether we will continue to come during spring break, and more importantly, plan very carefully.  You can’t wing it anymore. One thing that did happen on Thursday which was our next Magic Kingdom day, I was unable to get Mine Train before 9:45pm.  Our plan was to return after dinner at T-Rex, but a major thunderstorm rolled in.  We expected the ride to be down, so we didn’t return.  It was also raining VERY hard.  We were surprised when we never got an email stating the ride was down and offering us an alternate. Maybe they don’t do that for weather closures.

Thank you for reading about our Spring Break - I hope you enjoyed it!

THANK YOU Mindy, we loved hearing about your vacation! Thank you for sharing!

(If you would be interested in sharing your vacation trip report, please get in touch; I would love to feature you and your thoughts!)

Friday, May 6, 2016

What I'm Watching and Listening To

Hola party people! Happy Friday! Today I'm flying down to Orlando for a few days at the Beach Club villas with my colleague and friend Ellen, and then we're heading on the Disney Dream for a four night cruise out of Port Canaveral. Be sure to follow along on Facebook / Twitter / Instagram for pictures, videos, etc.

Today I wanted to bring you some more of my favorites, what I'm watching and listening to. Hope you find some new favorites; share with me if they're your favorites, too, or if there are others I should add to my list.

What I'm Watching:

Happy Valley (Netflix and BBC)

If you follow me on Facebook you know I'm on a major BBC / UK kick. I started with Sherlock and it's been a fun spiral down the rabbit hole ever since.

I Googled to find some recommendations, and Happy Valley came up on nearly every list. You can find it on Netflix and stream two seasons; from my internet sleuthing I read they are filming a third. (Also, it says "Netflix Original" but actually aired on the BBC a few years ago, not sure why Netflix branded it that way.)

Anyhoo....if you like police / procedural / crime shows, this will be your new jam. I binged both seasons over the course of a week and wished there was more. It's the story of Catherine Cawood, a police officer whose personal life and tragedies intermix with her role as an officer, mother, grandmother, etc. I don't want to say too much more because I don't want to give away any plot issues but suffice to say - you NEED to watch this one.

Note: if you're at all squeamish about violence, blood, etc - - there are a few episodes (#3 and #4 in Season 1, in particular) that get pretty violent at parts. But that shouldn't deter you from watching. Good news is, you can fast-forward on Netflix if you find that objectionable. But you probably shouldn't watch it with little ones in the vicinity.

The Night Manager (AMC and BBC)

Shocker - another UK drama! Who'd have thunk it, huh?!

The Night Manager is a miniseries which aired on BBC, and is now on a run on AMC. I don't currently have cable, but saw the first episode as a free trial on iTunes and then quickly purchased a season pass.

Tom Hiddleston (I mean, I could talk about him ALL DAY LONG) plays a former British soldier who is recruited for an intelligence operation to track arms dealer Roper, played brilliantly by Hugh Laurie.

As this is not streaming and airs one episode at a time (what are we, cavemen?!), I can't binge all at once. Which probably is a blessing, because I have stuff to do and I can't be spending precious hours of my life watching TV until 2 AM. But I digress.

I have high hopes for the rest of the season as it's starting out really strong. The story lines are incredible, dialogue is great and the supporting cast is supreme. I feel like TV drama is really going in a direction now where each episode is like a mini-movie and The Night Manager is no exception. This HAD to cost a mint to create, but it's worth every dime.


What I'm Listening To:

Real Crime Profile (Podcast)

If you're a fan of true crime and appreciate the perspectives of people who work in those fields, I would encourage you to listen to this podcast. The two main hosts are a former prosecutor and criminal profiler and also a woman who works closely with victim services in the UK. They give a really unique perspective to current (and past) cases.

So far they have concentrated on two crimes; the OJ Simpson case and the most recent FX show, The People vs OJ Simpson, and also the Steven Avery case from Making a Murderer.

In particular it was very interesting to hear their take on the OJ Simpson case and how they felt the miniseries glossed over the victims of the case in favor of the larger story of the trial. It was also interesting to hear their thoughts on what they call the "scheme team" (vs the dream team, as OJ's lawyers were called), and how they were really allowed to play dirty in the handling of the criminal case. (For instance, before jurors went into OJ's house, Johnny Cochran had his home redecorated and staged so that a juror would assume he was connected to the African-American community in LA.)

Anna Faris is Unqualified (Podcast)

Anna is a fun actress and I really enjoy her on CBS' show "Mom", but I really feel like she found her niche in podcasting. She hosts a podcast with her good friend and they take calls from people all over the world with relationship advice. But, as the title suggests, she feels she is deeply unqualified to give such advice and so thus is the basis for a truly fun podcast.

In addition to Anna, every week the podcast features a celebrity friend of hers who is also lending their two cents to the discussion. Past episodes have included Chris Evans and Jenny Slate, Ellen Page, Rosie O'Donnell and Lisa Kudrow. Her husband, Chris Pratt, also makes an appearance on certain episodes.

There is quite a bit of language (the podcast is labeled explicit) and they also talk about adult issues so it's definitely not one you'd listen to in the car with the kids on the way to preschool. If you're of a more sensitive nature, you might not like it. I feel like Anna got to a bit of a shaky start but really started to hit her stride around episode 5/6.


So the takeaway for today....with the exception of the Anna Faris podcast, clearly I am a dark human being. #crimeshowsforthewin

Let me know your favorites!

Thursday, May 5, 2016

Spring Break at WDW Part 3 - from Guest Blogger Mindy Walbesser

Hi friends! It's Thursday, so time for the third installment of Mindy Walbesser's report about her Spring Break 2016 at Walt Disney World.

Without further ado....here we go!

Our day at Hollywood Studios on Monday the 21st started out with our Fastpass+ for Toy Story Midway Mania.  Mania is right because stand-by lines were insanely long over 2 hours.  I would not wait in those kinds of lines.  After that we went to the Lights Motors Action Extreme Stunt show to see one of its last performances.  We did have a Fastpass+ for that, but it really was not necessary.  The theater wasn’t full at all. Then after that we had a Fastpass for Star Tours The Adventure Continues.  Usually, a Fastpass+ to Star Tours isn’t completely necessary because the lines come and go during the day, but it was a good thing we did have it. We did not have a dinner reservation.  Lunch was a disaster in Hollywood studios because I was counting on having the black-bean burger at the ABC Commissary only to find out they removed it from the menu.  I had a salad with chicken instead, but not before we walked from QS to QS looking for menu items that we could eat.  For dinner we walked from Hollywood Studios back to EPCOT and ate several small portions from various food booths at the Flower & Garden Festival.  We also had some delicious desserts. 


After we finished eating, we still wanted to see the new Star Wars fireworks at Hollywood Studios, so we trekked back to Hollywood Studios.  Now, my family must walk fast because at 8:30pm we were making a purchase in the Germany pavilion and by 9:15pm we were standing behind Min and Bill’s Dockside Dinner watching the fireworks, after not only walking back to the park, going through bag check, and scanning in, but I’d also stopped at the bathroom inside 50’s Prime Time Diner.  After the fireworks, we walked back to the Boardwalk Resort. 

Our day at Animal Kingdom found the park busy, but not horrible.  We had a Fastpass+ for the safari at around 10am followed by Fastpasses for Expedition Everest.  On our way to our 10am fastpass+ we received an email from MyDisneyExperience telling us that the attraction was closed, and we could select any attraction of our choice in the park that day as a replacement.  So we moved on to Everest.  I don’t like big drops, so I skip this one.  I had a fastpass too, but just didn’t even plan to use it.  With new changes to Fastpass+, I should not have to book a wasted Fastpass+ for myself for these kinds of rides anymore in the future.  We then met our friend for lunch.  We went to Yak & Yeti.  I showed my Landry’s card and we were seated in less than 5 minutes.  The food was delicious as usual.  We had a seat by the window near the front on the first floor.  After lunch, we had Fastpasses for the Dinosaur ride.  After Dinosaur, we checked back and found the Safari had reopened, so we went ahead and rode.  We were told a sink hold had to be repaired in the road.  We shopped around for a while, and then headed back to our resort to be ready for our dinner reservation. 
 

(Thanks again, Mindy! Part 4, the final installment, is coming up next week!)

Thursday, April 28, 2016

Spring Break at WDW Part 2 - from Guest Blogger Mindy Walbesser

Happy Thursday, folks! Today is the second in a four-part blog post series from my friend Mindy Walbesser about her family's recent vacation to Walt Disney World for Spring Break.

Take it away, Mindy!

Let’s talk about Fastpasses.  Now that Disney has gone to Fastpass+ with pre-scheduled Fastpasses, you must decide before arrival what park you want to do which day.  If you are staying onsite, like we did, your Fastpasses can be made as early as 60 days before arrival.  We did not make our Fastpasses until 32 days before arrival, but that is because we didn’t buy all our tickets until later.  Package guests won’t have to worry about that.  The ideal strategy is to plan to arrive at the park at opening, and reserve your Fastpasses for later in the afternoon.  The general rule of thumb is that the park will be much less crowded at opening, until at least 11am to noon.  Later, when crowds thicken, you will have your Fastpasses+ to get you through.  One strategy could be:

Park Arrival at Rope Drop: 
Ride Headliner and popular rides that will have a long line later
Breakfast Stop:  Eat breakfast at a quick service in the park that is offering breakfast or stop for a table service breakfast.  Most park quick services tend to offer pastries, bagels and coffee/juice.
Afternoon Plan: Want a pool break?  If the weather is acceptable to you for a pool stop, head back to your resort to enjoy the pool.  I personally prefer 80° as a minimum outside air temp for a pool break.  If the weather doesn’t look promising, or you don’t care about a pool break, you could schedule your Fastpasses for the afternoon, allowing plenty of time for eating lunch and dinner.  You could even decide to spend your Fastpass+ selections later in the evening. 
Evening Plan:  Have you used all your Fastpasses?  Try booking another one.



Since my family knows we are not rope drop people no matter how hard we try, I scheduled my Fastpasses+ for the afternoon hours.  I tried as best I could to make sure my first Fastpass+ wasn’t until 1pm.  For Animal Kingdom, we were meeting a friend for lunch, so I went ahead and scheduled the Kilimanjaro Safari Fastpass+ for 10am.  The animals are typically more active in the morning.  During our spring break week, we found that it was very difficult to make any adjustments to previously scheduled Fastpasses because there were no other times or attractions available. I am not sure we succeeded in getting a single one.  On our 2nd Magic Kingdom day, we ended up missing our first Fastpass+ for the Jungle Cruise. We tried to reschedule the time, but no other times were available.  We tried to select another attraction, but again, nothing.  For the duration of our trip, we were unable to experience any attraction with a fastpass+ after our first selections were used.  We had to rely on walk in attractions. 

So what do spring break lines look at like at Disney?  As you’d guess, the most popular attractions have the longest lines.  We found that even the Fastpass+ lines were sticking out of the queue and in need of switchbacks.  This is the Splash Mountain Fastpass+ queue at 3:27pm on March 24th.  Earlier in the day, the Fastpass+ queue for Big Thunder Mountain Railroad was out the queue, down the hill and across the bridge.  These kinds of lines are not for the faint of heart.  Just walking through Magic Kingdom was a challenge. 

There are a few things to be said about Magic Kingdom.  This park has the most Fastpass+ attractions to choose from, so the Fastpass+ system works best here.  Some of the attractions that we were easily able to experience without having a fastpass were Monsters Inc. laugh Floor, Carousel of Progress and Hall of Presidents.  Pretty much any high capacity attraction in a theater setting is a great choice.  I would have also been able to see Mickey’s Philharmagic, Enchanted Tiki Room and Country Bears Jamboree.  We did not try.  The People Mover is usually a best bet as well, however, it had an unexpected breakdown for most of the day and when it reopened, the lines were very long.  In fact, there was a line sticking out passed the queue ropes to get into the Swiss Family Robinson Treehouse.  I actually had never seen that before ever!  

Epcot was featuring the 2016 Flower & Garden Festival.  During our vacation, Test Track continuously had lines exceeding 90 minutes, often up to 120.  I have seen longer, at Christmas, but a line like that is no fun.  Soarin’ was still down for its refurbishment, and is not back up at this writing.  Maelstrom is still down while it is being made into the Frozen Ever After attraction.  This did not leave much at EPCOT as far as fastpasses go.  We did make a fastpass for Test Track in advance.  Without fastpasses my husband and daughter were able to ride Mission Space while I waited.  It’s not my thing.  We did the Gran Fiesta Tour in the Mexico Pavilion.  We could easily have ridden Ellen’s Energy Adventure, but we chose not to.  We did spend a good amount of time walking around World Showcase to experience the EPCOT Flower & Garden Festival which really should be renamed the EPCOT Flower & Food Festival.  Each year they have more and more food booths.  We returned to EPCOT in the evening after dinner on Tuesday for late magic hours.  By the time you return to the park, and actually ride, two hours really isn’t that much time.  We were able to ride Nemo and Friends, and Living with the Land. 

This is a good time to talk about dining reservations.  Prior to our vacation, I had only booked one dining reservation.  My husband’s birthday was Wednesday March 23rd and I booked Raglan Road at Downtown Disney, one of his favorites.  I booked that reservation through OpenTable.com instead of Disney’s system.  On Tuesday, a family friend had reservations for the Captain’s Grille at the Yacht Club Resort.  The Captain’s Grill is on my list of acceptable restaurants that are not too hard to get in as walk-up.  Acceptable because the menu contains entrees that appeal to my family.  We decided we wanted to dine together, so when my friend checked in at the podium, she asked if they could accommodate another 3 guests.  This was effectively doubling her reservation party.  We were prepared with a back-up plan, Big River Grille and Brew Pub, as they do not accept reservations.  However, the hostess came back and said it would be no problem.  We were given a nice round table in a private alcove.  The service was excellent and the food was very good.  They even brought my husband a cupcake for dessert because he was wearing his birthday button.  He had no planned to eat dessert as he’s not a dessert person.  We definitely would return to this restaurant again.

I have always found that certain restaurants are easier to get in last minute that others.  Do not even think about walking up to a character meal during spring break without a reservation.  Most won’t even consider you.  The best you could do there is check with guest services at your resort or a park to see if there are any cancellations, or call 407-WDW-DINE.  The easiest to get into are resort restaurants followed by World Showcase restaurants that have limited or no view of World Showcase Lagoon.  Restaurants with a view are very popular for Illuminations, so they’re harder to get.  Restaurants with no view are not easy, but I have done it.  Some last minute favorites are San Angel Inn, inside the pyramid, Restaurant Marrakesh in the Morocco Pavilion, and Chefs de France.  Restaurants at Downtown Disney, now called Disney Springs are also doable because those restaurants do not load all their availability into Disney’s system, and reserve a certain percentage for walk-up.  However, allow plenty of wait time.  Another way to avoid this is to join the Landry’s Select Club.  Landry’s Select members are entitled to first available seating at their restaurants any time.  Just show your card.  Restaurants at Walt Disney World include Yak & Yeti, T-Rex and Rainforest CafĂ©.  That gives my family 3 options right off the bat.


(Thanks again, Mindy! Stay tuned for part 3 next week....)